I don't like my in laws anymore, how do I hide it, I don't want to see them again?

My inlaws are jerks. The father doesn't want to meet me and its been over 4 years. They are Korean and I'm not. I don't know if that has anything to do with it. My wife is okay, I'm happy to be married to her. The rest of her family interacts with me when I see them, but I know in the back of my head that they percieve me as very low. My wife talked to him again about meeting me and he refused and got angry. I just wish he would die.